Friday, July 25, 2008

inspired to a meaningful life ahead!

I just watched Oprah, a show i watch almot every weekday. Heard of many inspiring stories and really keeps me thinking. Today's show is pretty meaningful and inspiring. It's called ' Cheers to you! ' whereby Oprah finds out a few wonderful people who has done meaningful things and share it.

1st story

A lady named Debbe Magnusen, a suburban mother who found her calling when she read an article about an abandoned baby found dead in her community. In order to save more babies, she founded ' Project Cuddle ' - a hotline for pregnant woman in trouble who need help raising their babies and finding adoptive families.




Her 10 years dedication in helping women who felt lost with pregnancy and she saved more than 570 babies.

There are many families that are deeply grateful to this noble lady and Oprah decided its time to give them a chance to say thank you :)

Oprah hosted an event called ' Cheers for you! ' at Disneyland and invited ER star - John Stamos to bring Debbe over to Disneyland whereby all the families whom wanted to give their gratitude to this noble lady. It was a big surprise for her and she came in with a limo which have tinted windows. When she took her first step out, the crowd was cheering and Oprah welcomed her!



All the families that she had helped, rushed out and gave their heart-warming cheers. The first baby she saved, was already 10 plus years old. Many of the adopted families thank her for bringing them together as a family and the rest thank her for not giving up their chance to motherhood.

It's wonderful to hear such stories, of how people devote their lives in helping others when they could have just led on with their normal lives. She's helped many unborned child under the railway and giving many children a chance to lead life as wonderful as it should be.




2nd story

Karen Morris proved to us that it's never to late to make your dream come through. She was the first grandmother to enter medical school at Yale and also, graduated to be a physician/doctor.



Karen first thought of becoming a doctor during her days in high school. When her grandmother was ill, she saw how doctors performed their skills and their best to help save a life.

At 16, her life took a sudden turn when she found herself pregnant with her eldest daughter. She managed to earn her diploma but her pursue for her medical dreams was held back. She said " I felt devastated as i was suppose to be the first to go to college and felt like i let everyone down as my family members was devastated as well. "

By age 29, Karen had 5 children and a husband that did not support her college dreams due to financial status and the time needed. So, she left her husband to pursue for her dream of becoming a nurse when she knew the time of him saying it's about time u could enroll will never come.

However, it was hard to enter a medical school being a single parent of 5 kids. She knew that and for the next four years, Karen juggled jobs, school and definitely, motherhood. She was working 2 -3 different jobs and her greatest fear of pursuing her dream was neglecting her children. She would make sure she checks their homework, ensure their clothing were out before they needed it, being there at their functions and doing homework together with them.

Soon, she became a nurse and still yearning to be a doctor deep down. She didn't dare to say it out loud as she knew people were bound to laugh at a dream this big. She quietly applied for medical schools thinking that they would be laughing their desk off with this application. Not only did they not laugh, Karen became the first grandmother to enter Yale school of medicine.

She claimed " It blew me away. When i was dreaming, i don't think i had a dream this big "



Oprah wanted people to know about this capable lady which went all the way for her dreams. So, she gave a speech on the projector to Karen's class and invited her to the Oprah show. Her classmates were simply delighted for her and proud of her. She's now a soon to be doctor and a grandmother of 4 grand children :)

The determination in her was unbeatable. Life's like a roller coaster for Karen and at the end of the ride, she did it, she fulfilled her dream. I admire her for her determination and all the things she's been through. I'm sure she would have inspired her children and grand children. Well well, it's time to learn from it and nothing's ever too late i guess :)

I think i won't finish all the stories :) Just one more yeah.

3rd story




Cheyenne ( above in white ) serves aboard the aircraft carrier the USS Eisenhower stationed in the Persian Gulf. She has not seen her children for 7 months due to her service to the nation. Her husband, Ronn, plays both parts of a mom and dad at home. Kaitlyn, her daughter says " i cry a lot because i miss mommy . '

Her husband feels that Christmas time was the toughest for him. The children did not want to put up the Christmas tree this year as they don't want anything to do with Christmas when their Mummy wasn't here.

However, Cheyenne would send DVD of her telling bed time stories and mail them back. The children would always rush to the mail box anticipating the arrival of the tape. It makes them feel closer.

Oprah invited her to the show and surprised her family by her early return to visit them. It was a heart-warming scene. 7 months is quite a long period to be away from your children, especially at their young age. It was definitely a big sacrifice and it's the same for all of the people who are away from their families. Noble and courageous for the country!




These inspiring stories sets out different values of them that we should really learn from. Leading life the right and best way. There are much more meaningful things to do rather than leading as thou everyone owes you a living. It's time to get a life and minimize regrets in life from what you have experienced !

TAGS

Hannah: You've got to stop your gweeing girl! hahas. The sweetness is way over sugar content levels :)

Jesslyn: No pls. I got work too, just not long term. heeh heeh. If not where got time to meet you guys right? i'm so sweet :p

Cheryl: Sure a not?! Miss me then lets go out some day soon!

Esther: Yes my loyal reader! Updating at this hour just for you to have something to read when you first on your computer in the office :)

LXT: You're one busy woman huh?! That's what happens when there is a boyfriend thing okay! meet up soon. I think it's on sat! make sure you come mannnn.

Whitney: Yes yes. Updated but not many photos due to my horrible face complexion. Never reply my call and msg yesterday. Went missing?

Wen: We're always here. Are you drifting?

Relfy: What to do? She's trying hard to be sexy. Please praise her and don't mock at her k? HAHAs.

Rena: HAHAs. i want too. You buy for me and winson buy for you :)

a wonderful evening to chill out.

POST REMOVED DUE TO SPECIAL REQUEST. HEEH.

that's the way i like it.

It's another SIM outing day! heeh. Something i always look forward to since school has ended. We went back to collect our trans scripts.

Headed to town for a movie.

Pretty sweet romance comedy :) I kinda like it. Those happy endings and romance. Oh well, it only happens in movies thou.

7/10? Always a lil bias to sweet romance movies :X



Had our dinner at Sushi tei! Another sinful meal i guess. It's never ending.

Miss those schooling days. Oh well, looking forward for the next meet up :)



Debbie's flying off tmr. A group photo for the girls. Heeh. Hope Debbie has a smooth flight yea~



It felt pretty to good to reach home early on a Wednesday night. Totally no mood to go out until my face heals. And i hope it's sometime soon yea.

Tuesday, July 22, 2008

drifting further away from the shores.

I'm back to days that i have nothing to be busy about. Kind of miss working actually. Busy till the extend i don't realise how each hour past just like that. Enjoying the working hours with my fun colleagues whom has helped me in every possible way. Sadly, there aren't any photos. Too busy to be taking photos eh!

Pretty chocolates.





Been shopping at forever21 pretty often these days and Fox is having 50% off the whole store at Wisma. Had no time to browse through everything, needed to fetch mummy after her lasik surgery. awww.



Haven't talk to many people for a long time. Hope to catch up soon despite everyone's busy lifestyle.

the missing of my absence.

Update update!

Been busy and haven't had the mood to blog So here goes my super long post :

Got back my camera! Update oh Uwei's birthday photos.





One of the best birthday cake i've seen! Great efforts by Debbie.



Birthday boys.



There were 2 shots on top of the cake so cheers to both the birthday boys. Hahas. Super cool cake.









Don't ask me what that expression stands for. heeh. It's just JJ and Sonia's style.



Uwei looks super happy eh? hahas. I think he definitely enjoyed his 18th birthday :D











Kinda creative right? Puke area. hahas. This is what happens when there's lots of alcohol around.















When i thought i lost my camera, Evan was worried our photo might be up on the net. Like sg girls and boys? HAHA. How funny is that.



One day we should ask JJ to come up with more face expressions. heeh.



Jj's feeling sexy i think o.o





Went to Leonard Drakes with Vicky to get my face fixed.

Had a lil ice cream to pamper ourselves for the day .







Dinner with Daddy and Mummy :)











Daddy never fails to bring me for a sumptous meal. Sweet.

Steamboat at Mount Faber.

I know i know, its like steamboat marathon for us.







Headed to Boat Quey - 12 element for a drink.





A night at double O.








Life's been bored but exciting and fun with the company. Maybe it's time to have more activities choices i guess.

Thursday, July 10, 2008

please give me a reason to believe.

I'm curious to know what's going on with me. Seems like everyone has something to be busy with but me. Being busy is one powerful as it keeps our mind away from thinking. No uploads of the food i've taken, no blogging, no nothing. For the first time, i'm going sleep as early as 11. To prevent my mind from being in a whirl.

what more can i believe in?

Tuesday, July 8, 2008

the sweetest thing

Ain't that the sweetest? Recently, I realised now heavenly cupcake look. It doesn't only taste sweet but look sweet as well. Heeh. I'm going to bake some tomorrow and hope it turns out well. I'm totally mesmerized by sweetness and pretty outlook :)



Just a silly random post. Heading over to leonard drake to get my full face consultation and do something about my poor complexion :(

And, i should learn how to cook soon. Or at least try. I wonder if it would shock my friends?

the feeling of looking down when i walk is killing me ~

TAGS

Estherbaby : Yeah man. Must enjoy life. Am growing fatter man. Keep eating. My blog becoming food blog alr. hahas. You enjoy with me too what. Eat delicious food together :) But i must head to the gym more often alr.

Relfy : Its good bye to your swollen eyes alr. hahas. Don't need cover man, nothing wrong with eye infection. Heeh. Finally, you dont have to show us the part you got infected over and over again :X

Johnne : DADDY. Dont you think my bones are a lil too hard for ballet?! Can hear those bones cracking! You should have sent me to learn when i was much younger okay! Blame on you:P

Hannah : Please stop showing me your gweeing sweetness okay. You have loads of people to entertain you. Those spammers are no life freaks so i guess they just went on to disturb others. Don't really need to bother about them ya!

Mico : Yeah man. Oh well, they'll learn it through the hard way and find themselves silly right at the end.

Wen : No problem. Anything for you :) Meet us soon le. And darling Rena who has gone missing :(

Hannah : There's alot of things wrong with my face okay! But i'm going to do something about today, hope it turns out better. Heeh. Smoked salmon is delicious but a lil salty i feel. :)

Jacq : Miss me then meet me up! hahas. We haven't met each other for a long time alr. But its okay, i understand your busy schedule and mine's like totally opposite. :P

Monday, July 7, 2008

when will my reflection show.

It's another fattening session for us.

Steamboat at AMK. Pretty nice place and most importantly, it looks quite clean. Ha.







Thank you to both of them for cooking for me :) loves.



yum yum.



Shoppings for the day :) When 3 girls get together, shopping never stops.




Recently, the few movies on Vegas makes me want to go on a holiday! Really want to visit more interesting and fun places. Singapore's way too small. Well, my favourite is Europe for now. The romantic atmosphere makes my heart melt. It'll be wonderful if i could be there to stay for a few months or years :) I miss Japan too, I wouldn't mind going back for as many times as i can. I mean, who will mind? Such nice culture, the politeness, the snow and the food of course! Oh well, i hope a vacation comes in my real soon. Heeh.


there's no vacancy, just emptiness.

can we chill?

A way to spend my Sunday every week. Went over to Estherbaby's house for a swim and chit chat sessions by the poolside :)


After all the partying, it just feels relaxing to chill by the poolside.




We've got the pool all to ourselves. heeh.



I miss my camera already :(





Estherbaby gave me this dress, super sweet of her. i love it :D



Headed home to shower but unknowingly sat on the chair to chat on the phone till I'm dry. Oh dear. But no flu today, so i'm pretty fit afterall :) Showered and slept at 3am. heeh.

to even make a difference.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY UWEI AND JIEHUAN !


With great efforts, comes a wonderful house party! :)



My camera got taken home by somebody else by mistake. More photos when i get it back :)

Birthday boy - Jiehuan.



I miss SIM mates like crazy although it has just been awhile :(









and they never leave the word - gambling :D





Really enjoyed myself except the fact i thought i lost my camera :) Glad Debbie found it for me. heeh.

Left at 130am to catch a movie with Whitney, Chris and company.



All i can say is, Angelina Jolie is no doubt one of the hottest hollywood actresses around! Her eyes, her lips, totally attractive. hahas.

Saturday, July 5, 2008

and shopping never stops.

http://c-andyshop.blogspot.com/

Support Wenny's blogshop yea! Get those cute hooties right now :)

hidden in the background of the picture.

The JIM BEAN dance competition 2008 event was held at double o yesterday night. Thumb's up for those dancers, they dance so well. Every group is a winner! I could feel, their passion for dance was stronger than anything. It's always nice to have a passion for something you like and just go for it all the way ! :)

Had dinner at TCC.



Smoked salmon and prawn linguine.



Banana curry?! hahas. Sounds like a weird combination.






After dinner, went to Double O.

love you girls!





Yesterday nights, i realise a full-proof way to puke. That's to drink many shots at a go! I, personally experiment it! The smell of a tray of shots is enough to make us feel like puking. Sigh sigh. I miss my previous face complexion so so so much :( I don't even want to look in the mirror anymore. Going to do something to it at leonard drake on Monday. Get rid of all the dirty stuff on my face! ARGH.



going on to being nothing but ordinary,

in the background.

feeling so small,

small enough to be kept away.

hidden away from the lights,

the glamour.




Friday, July 4, 2008

she retreated to where she is now.

Met Jo and shopped awhile in Bugis today. Headed home for dinner and went over to wine connections to meet whitney and the rest ! :)


A lil sweet wine might just make you feel better.





Cheers?







Love that she's in my life.







Toast to our friendship :)












you landed in this situation with your bare hands, there isn't any reason for me to bear all the consequences. nothing ever changes, still the same. always wanting others to bear your unhappiness and bear a responsibility for your well-being. Perhaps being lonely is your only problem, and solution is just to get a companion.

Thursday, July 3, 2008

as the crowd passes by.

Arena and Mos. We went for our usual drink, lychee martini but only this time, we went too late. There wasn't any lychee left :( As usual, the rnb section was too full to be coped in so we went to the trance area. heeh.

HAPPY MUSH DAY JO!

Super hot girls!



Cheers to Peihua's first experience!













New SIM card.



























Supper.




My blog heading for the countable words per entry. I guess picture does all the talking. I headed to gym earlier yesterday noon and waiting at the lounge for mummy to pick me up. Meanwhile, i read the news paper. It was quite surprising for me to read about the gangsters these days. There was like 3 attacks due to gangsterism? And they all seem to sound meaningless.

Attack 1 : A group of adults walking in the streets of boat quey and they were beaten up due to stepping into their territories. The victims were too afraid of more trouble to even have an interview on this case.

Attack 2 : A group of adults whom practices dance every week at esplanade area was attacked by a big group of teenagers due to asking them not to pick on other teenagers. Initially, the teenagers left quietly after the warning by the victims but yet, came back in a big group.

Attack 3 : A group of friends went out for some drinks at a pub. One of the girls was eyed on by the attacker but got rejected when he asked her for supper. When the victims left the pub for supper, the attackers left at the same time. They drove off and the attackers were following closely behind and suddenly, one of the attacker came with a iron rod and hit against the windows. Hence, victims speed off and went past a few red lights to escape. All windows were shattered and victims suffers from cuts from the shattered glass.


When i read these articles, i was wondering, what's wrong with these people? Are they drunk or what? Is it wrong to be at any place in the public? I don't really think so. Those victims was just unlucky i guess. So many people which aren't in their 'gang' happens to be there and what can they do about it. I really don't understand why. Violence isn't a way to face rejections either. My my, how to feel safe these days?

Tuesday, July 1, 2008

if only, i could be in my dreams.

Yingrui and I went to settled our school admin stuff while Jo brought Sumama for chicken rice and we all met up. Last day with Sumama before he flies off.

Sumama wasn't full, so we brought him to curry rice at Serene Centre.



Lookin evil.



The lunch portion is much more suitable for us, lesser.



Sumama loves to order weird stuff. His drink was totally nasty. HAHA.



Vivo City



Some healthy desserts?



Shih Kushiya











Headed to Geylang for Durian ! D24, simply delicious.



More to come, dim sum.









MORE PHOTOS TO BE UPLOADED WHEN I'VE GOT THEM.

My blog is turning into a food blog soon i guess. Well, its the last day Sumama can taste Singapore food so its a food marathon day for us! Gonna grow fat soon. Awwww.


How much more of it,

should i take to get used to it.

How many times more of it,

to get sick of it.

Wanting to think logically,

all the time.

The fake fronts,

hating to believe in.

Meaningless reasons,

that ain't that simple to understand.

i think i am starting to

miss the sincerity,

that only seem to be possible in dreams now.

it's time to be a big girl now.

Lunching with Jo and Yingrui at Hk cafe.

Simplicity.



when we always wondered, what happen to the dishes we think no one will order. Jo ordered it. Tofu and Vegetable Macoroni.



Yingrui claims it to be healthy with all the oil floating on the surface.




Met Esther and Whitney for night drink. But accompanied Whit to Sakae Sushi.




Introuduced her to the seafood set.





Enjoyed their company. 2 of my besties. love love.